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FIRST LOVE..!♥️


What it can do!?
It can do so many things if it is a successful one then they are the happiest ones.
If it is not either of the one will suffer ….
It makes you emotional..
It makes you vulnerable.. (to somethings which shouldn't happen)
Loss of hope..
Loss of emotional stability..
Loss of trust..
Loss of belief on love...
and being happy is the hardest of ALL.

Even though we choose to move on there are somethings which will never leave you, forever and ever..
In the process to get back into the normal life  we make many mistakes which we do unwantedly in a confused state.  Never knew how to correct them....

As someone said "It isn't the goodbye that hurts but the flashback that follows".
our memory is so strong which remembers everything.

There is a mental stress...because we know things are not going right and we are helpless....
you experience an unexplainable pain if  your an introvert.
Behavioral changes ,mood swings and many....

whom to blame??
The hormones responsible for this process??
or
destiny?
or
karma?
No one is responsible except the one who is suffering.
we are helpless because all are interlinked.

This happens only if you are  emotional and you know the value of love..


People in this stage have to realize by themselves because they never to listen to others..
they have to be strong so this does not take place again and this is not to be discussed with others as they have nothing to do with that and ONLY they have deal with this.

people who failed in love need love to be normal it can be mothers, fathers, siblings, or friends but if its again a drama of love then....am speechless.

Because if it happens they find it very difficult even to "smile" back again.

Humans need to be understood but not betrayed.

Without understanding the persons position ,never try to tell that person(who is in confused state) that you love because its just out of sympathy or attraction  you get that feeling , which will not last long. As they are vulnerable they may do a mistake in a confused state and this time they can't take it more...so, Give them their own time to get out of it, let them explore the ways they can get out of it.

If you can do something then it is to understand and take care of them but never let them feel low and
If possible listen to them.

A piece of broken heart always stays with the person they love, they may some how move on and may not talk about this to anyone but THEY WILL REMEMBER IT "FOREVER" for this life.






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